Seeing oneself in your own future is sometimes hard. Those who do may see positive or negative possibilities. But one must remember that life is full of surprises. The world is forever changing and what is to be, don't always come to past. The events that take place aren’t always in our hands and sometimes may be proven to be glorious or disastrous. But isn't the unforeseen future what keeps us interested in knowing it?
Sometimes when things don't go as plan and is a failure, its normal to lose faith and hope and even bring you to curse the gods that you do or do not believe in. You end up losing sight of the possibilities that can still happen in the next minute, next hour or tomorrow which is only a day away. Disappointment, hearth ache and pain sometimes blind you from seeing the possibility of a better future. So it’s not surprising of the suicide rates or that there are people who no longer have interest in moving on or just don't care if the future comes cause for them things seems like it can't possibly get any better.
I'm at the view, that with the right people around you, to give you the positive support that you need, you can accomplish anything even seeing a positive future in the mist of one perceived failure. I don't mean the type of support when your friend is in hearth ache and you carry them out only to find a stranger for them to carry home. I mean the type of support when your friend is in hearth ache and you carry them out to cheer them up and you make sure they reach home in one piece and you give them a shoulder to cry on and a few words of encouragement if needed. A True and positive friend that carries with them love and understanding with a great sense of compassion, for someone's well-being. But unfortunately, not everyone has that. Do you see what I'm talking about?
Isn't the fact that at the end of the day, you really can't be sure what tomorrow may bring and that is what keeps life interesting, keeps you wondering, keeps you hoping, longing and believing? Yes I do understand that interest can be lost cause of no wishful or faithful events occurring. When every day that comes, it turns out to be like the same day that past and make you say "same crap different day" or that even though you took one step into the future, you feel like it was ten steps back and you can't help but feel that nothing you wish for, dream for and yearn for will come true causing the true course of depression to set in but that will be another topic.
You know what they say, "Never say never" "And what is for you will be for you". But no matter what is said to make you feel better, that feeling, the feeling of dejection may never go away. I'm not going to lie to you and say it will, because I believe only when things change and you see the light of day instead of the darkness of night and something you were looking for comes into your sight and you can reach out and touch it, hold it and keep it that that may be the only thing that will lighten or even make that feeling go away entirely. But the truth of the matter is, although you are feeling like you are alive but not living the life you should, things could always change. Do you see that the future really is not written in stone, that anything is possible but it is the low probability of things happening is what may make things seem impossible?
So you tell me what you see for tomorrow, no matter if it's through pain's sight or the eyes of happiness.
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