THE FEAR OF TRUTH

Lies are what some of us use to protect oneself or others from hurt and pain but sometimes those same lies ends up hurting us and the ones we tried to protect even more. The truth sometimes hurt but lies when found out, may ultimately destroy everything we hold dear to us. For the hurt is once when truth is spoken but twice when a lie is revealed.
We often think that the truth will not come out but all that thought ends up being are wishful. We forget that the future is unknown and anything can be revealed, that we are not really in complete control of our future, especially when others are involved. Instead we pretend to be in a safe place when our lies are believed and taken as truth. That everything is OK when we have people to support those lies even though they are also being lied to.
It’s sad when people put all their faith in you without especially without question and you put them in a position to carry a lie that you have created because the truth is that they may not have believed the lie but their faith in you brought them to support and believe the lies that you have told. Are your relationships really worth loosing because of lies? I know you think it’s not because by lying you are saying that it’s not worth loosing because of the truth. You have fail to realise that by lying you may sealing your faith of having that lost when the truth finally comes out.
We need to stop being naive and face the fact that the saying “What’s in the dark will come in the light” and “The truth will set you free” are more than just words. They are more truth than the lies that are made to appear to be truth. Yes, it is hard at time to tell the truth when harm will be done to an individual but it’s harder to accept the lies that was told and still have to swallow the truth that is now know to you.
So are there such things as carrying a secret to your grave or is it just an imaginary concept. One may not realise that lies are the foundation of which blackmail is made because by refusing to tell the truth you give others the power and leverage to hold the truth against you. Believe it or not, what you don’t know can and sometimes will hurt you and not if you someone else.
So see the truth for what it is and don’t get blinded by the lies.